I argue that if women would give men the love they needed, society would crumble. Like the carrot on a stick, the promise, or the illusion, of a woman’s love is what keeps men motivated.
Therefore, women can never risk satisfying their men entirely, for it would make that man lose his motivation to dedicate his life to her, to keep donating his taxes to women’s society.
Men’s desire for sex and love opens up women’s opportunities for manipulation. Thinking of the sheer number of men that have been fooled into paying for women’s lifestyles, vacations, and mortgages, it proves women don’t really have to fear the consequences of some mystical patriarchy.
Women are not being oppressed. Women are the beneficiaries of men’s struggles. Instead, the human race appears to be run by a matriarchy that has figured out how to outwardly pose as a patriarchy, while blaming men for its shortcomings.
Like a man’s sex drive, his need for love is just another string women can pull. The two other strings are called marriage and money. Together, these four strings—sex, love, marriage and money—allow women to control a man like a puppet, a voodoo doll in her hands.
I call it string theory. A woman can manipulate any man who hasn’t brought his sex drive, his love urges, his financial situation, and his relationships under his immediate control. Which is most men. As soon as a man surrenders either one of these strings to a woman, she can and will use him for her personal gain.
Men, therefore, should not fear a woman’s rejection. A rejection is a good thing. The ability to take a rejection from a woman wins a man his independence.
If a woman ever responds to a man’s sexual pleas in some unreasonably harsh manner, she does so precisely for this reason. She does not want him to be independent. She wants him to fear her. She wants him to submit himself to the will of womankind. She wants him to think he ought to be the man women want him to be, passive and obedient, hard-working, loyal as a dog, but also self-castigating and self-diminishing.
Without any strings to pull, however, a woman has only two courses of action available to her. Either she must submit herself to the man who is in charge of himself, or she must come clean and admit that she only feigned interest in that man for ulterior motives.